Worth Reading and Understanding

Extract from RD.COM
Poster : Tuan Lokong

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER : The husband just said "I am with you Darling". The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behaviour. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with >the wife. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this mind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY

This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

i wish a shoulder to cry tonight..

*** i dont know why i was crying tonight***
i cant sleep...i feel sad.. am i crying for remembering my olf memories..do i miss those old time..? am i sad that it reaching the very end of the year of 2005? am i crying for being worry & scare to wait and see what gonna happen to me along the new year 2006?
could I live happily..? or am i gonna face more and more troublesome.... could anybody out there make me smile & laught more often...
could I win all the challenge that come along my life.. could I have my dream come true? could I have better personal life throughout the Year..
God, I dont ask for more..I deserve a good life... I've been tested for so long... i take it myself... u know much better than me... u see i'm tearing in my heart.. ppl might see i'm ok.. but deep in my heart.. i was so hurt.. it's painful...i'm suffering... suferring...
help me to cure my heart... i'm trying so hard to calm myself..
I seek for your mercy, your grace, your blessed.. help me to stop my tear.. Keep me strong... i can see a long journey yet for me to step forward...
hold my hand.. and walk with me.. be my guidance...till I see the bright light that lighten my life..

Checking Course Billing Statement Aug/2005

I was checking my Course Billing Statement..
huhhh.. it was alot Outstanding Payment yet waiting for me to pay by myself..
:-(


will be part of memories in my life..

Flight Itenery..hye.. i paid it myself!!

This morning daddy, twin little brother & myself got to Miri.
daddy paid car installment & I get my Flight ticket..

Flight Itenery

AIRASIA FLIGHT NUMBER AK259

Monday / 02 January 06
DEPART : MIRI 09:40PM
ARRIVE : KLIA 11:50PM

bye-bye RM 322.99
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hhhhuuuuu.. recall the other AirTicket KLIA-MIRI payment which cost me RM 390.00
Uwaaaaaa.. sakit jiwa hamba :-(

after get my ticket done.. I had a small talk with daddy in the car..
dad' keep question me .. why am I always choose the night flight...

i guess.. am a bit tense that moment and what I can say...?
"apak, nemu nuan berapa beza bayar flight pagi, lemai, malam?"
i told daddy I had spend RM 7++.00 It was my money!!!!

Sounds that I am 'mengunkit' that toy & boy was so lucky!!
they got full support during schooling period..
somehow .. aku 'kecik hati'

enti aku menjawab perbualan... what I get is this title: Tengik aka Congek..
and this word..which I hate the Most=CHILDISH!!

God, how I wish to hear they say' we r so lucky to have a little sister like u endu..'
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hmm... layan kecik hati apa guna... bukan org faham pun...
forget about it...
lets typing a crazy attitude story for today...

to cut short the story...
ehehe.. Big thanks to my cute nephew..aiko..
This evening...he was a valuable licence for me..

pretending i drove him around senadin but.. ehehehe..
i kebas my dad car and drive all the way toward Lutong :-)
I dont know what am I doing... What move me to do so...?

hohooo.. mac U are crazy.. crazy..
U will be a losser if both of you fail on the 'Test'

No..no..no I hope it will not happen again..
I'm tired and I dont want to experience the 'sick' moment anymore..

I know Once it broken the Rule.. everything in your dream will be gone...
there will be no sweet sweet story around nor blooming flower..

I'm so scared.. but I cant turning back...
i had dream for it and wish that it worth to wait and taste the sweet fruit....

Flowers..
I want to see all 7 blooming flowers...

Night outing with Friend

uhhh.. try to upload those picture... can't wait for slow dial-up connection service..
taruk link pun jadi lorrrrr ehehehehe..

A mini gathering with rd.c cyberfriend, aie, chi_chi,uk, 007,alongjr, alongjr's little sister (abin).
I came with my sista, thanks sist..for bring me out..
We meet at Jayau Seribu P&L.. 12midnight proceed to Cherries Berries, 3am.. return to JS for a bottle of Bacardi... :-P
hmmm.... we left about 3.30am.. nearly 4am..

Friendship is the gift you give to yourself...


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arrr... cruel 007 for censor his eyes.. uwaa... sure ngamuk org muda ya kelak... ada bertembak dlm forum.. huhuhu..ingin menyaksikan..

typing from my heart..

Hi again.. new year is coming..after a silent christmas..
I'm still happy... what ever had happen .. tear n upsad condition...
... glad & thankful... my family member still have the mood during christmas...
compare to others friend...who mention to mom "nasai mood kami sebilik ngintu kristmas taun tok"

here, i notice in any conditions.. the joy & blessing flow & given to us..
Thank You Jesus... for keep us strong & patient...

We pray more happiness return...

i have this short note to remember:

22 December 2005
Thanking God..for all the gift of Love..

23 December 2005
Thanking God..for all the good time I had spend with cyberfriend.. they really make my life 'happening' full of smile & laughter..

24 December 2005
Thanking our lovingly God...for keep us (Daddy, mommy, sist Toy, bro.Boy, twin little bro. babe tut-tut & cice, my nephew,Aiko, my niece. dedeq, Aunt Pusa & family) one family togather on Christmas Eve...

25 December 2005
Thank you Jesus... I feel great celebrating Christmas & Had morning prayer together with family member ..at Good Sherphed, Lutong. ( I meet B at the main entrance... ehehe i see you & got u ..smack u )

after the Christmas Morning Service, family & relative visiting started.. i really miss that moment..

late evening.. we had a small family talk.. God, thank you for keeping us in patient.. never give up no matter how hard it could take place.. I'm proud to have a good mom & dad.. never pointing finger to your children.. not even arguing who is right..who is wrong.. But giving full advise and support to your children..

we left sist' house at 4pm, drove to miri town.. and get back to Niah.

...when we reach home.. arrrr Not again.. sial punya penceroboh.. my house was so messy. everything was broken.. pity my little twin brother..they lost thier saving money... which being kept to buy a new bicycle..

hahhhh.. macam-macam...utai nyadi..

Attitude captures

dellyne's with her attitude pose.. :-P hmmm.. need someone to get a powershot on me for a nice potret. abg love this photo so much.. and so am I. - that was my new cloth..huhh..worth my money.