I N S T R U C T I O N S F O R L I F E
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
3. Follow the three R’s:
Respect for self,
Respect for others and
Responsibility for all your actions.
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a
wonderful stroke of luck.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship.
7. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate
steps to correct it.
8. Spend some time alone every day.
9. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and
think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for
your life.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the
current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
14. Share your knowledge. It is a way to achieve immortality.
15. Be gentle with the earth.
16. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your
love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
Friendster Horoscope for November 18
Sunday, November 18, 2007
Do you really relate ur life with horoscope?
Me- No. But sometimes it's kidda true wahahahaaa..
Prepare yourself for a day full of opportunity and activities -- revise your resume!
Your life has been a series of compromises and negotiations, each of which has strengthened your bonds with friends, family and partners. But not everyone feels that compromises enrich their life -- as you will see all too clearly today. Someone with a deep, dark selfish streak comes into your life. They are in no mood to share, back down, or see your point of view. In their opinion, it's their way or the highway. You should be prepared to hit the road.
Me- No. But sometimes it's kidda true wahahahaaa..
Prepare yourself for a day full of opportunity and activities -- revise your resume!
Your life has been a series of compromises and negotiations, each of which has strengthened your bonds with friends, family and partners. But not everyone feels that compromises enrich their life -- as you will see all too clearly today. Someone with a deep, dark selfish streak comes into your life. They are in no mood to share, back down, or see your point of view. In their opinion, it's their way or the highway. You should be prepared to hit the road.
Transform Yourself
Sunday, November 04, 2007
Make changes as you journey through your career and discover new things
Just as sailors must sail through the doldrums if they want to realise their ambitions of sailing to far away places,we too must make difficult transitions in our careers.
If we are to move from junior to senior, from ordinary to extraordinary, there are at least four major transformations to navigate:
From:
-Being reactive to being proactive;
-Fulfilling a role to contributing your gifts;
-Serving your work context to your career goals;
-continuous learning to teaching others.
Each transformation requires not that we do different things, or that we do things differently changed, that we be transformed.
But like passing through the doldrums, when we are in the process of transforming, we feel stressed, uncertain and confused.
How then do we navigate through the transitions of our career?
Begin now to cultivate within yourself each of the 5Cs.
This is where you will find the strength and wisdom to navigate the trials of career transition.
Pick a Course
More than anything, to cross the uncertainty of transitions, you must have a destination in mind. That way, when you are becalmed in transition, you will have a course to set your sails by as you work each breeze to inch your way forward.
It does not matter that your greater destination will change as your career proceeds, it only matters that you have a course to set your compass by.
In particular, set goals that define how you will be proactive, decide what gifts you want to contribute through your work, what work context will support your career goals and how you will help others learn.
Build Courage
To be extraordinary, you must practise taking risks - this is how you will build the courage to be extraordinary.
You must practise standing out and being proactive. You must also practice stepping out of your role and your comfort zone and declaring your unique contribution.
You must risk insisting that your work aligns with your gifts. You must risk allowing those you are teaching to make mistakes on your watch so that they can learn.
Does it help knowing there is no way other than by rsking?
Probably not, so you might as well get started.
Build Capacity
Do this every day, in every way. "work only" is never sustainable by itself - you must have the strength of a full and balanced life to sustain you.
Being "extraordinary" means bringing who you really are into play at work, and that is how it feels when you are extraordinary successful - like play!
A life of integrated play and work is your platform for excellence.
Be Deeply Committed
If you are to make your work an expression of gifts, you will have to make difficult choices, big commitments.
This requires you to stand by your choices, at first for yourself, and later asa leader for your colleagues.
You build your capacity for commitment by learning two things:
(1) how to say "no", ironically, and by learning to take responsibility for everything over which you have the slightest choice.
(2) learn how to 'decide', that is, learn how to kill off the alternatives until you are committed from the very core of your being. This unleashes the power to be extraordinary.
Be Compassionate
Compassion is love for yourself and then love for others.
Show me a workplace that works and i will show you a workplace where people care about themselves and one another.
I will show you a workplace where trust is the basis for relationship, not power or fear, and where people are committed to their own and everyone's success.
Call me old-fashioned, but that looks like compassion to me. To build compassion, learn to love yourself first by discovering how to accept who you really are - the good, the bad and the ugly. It s a process that is srprisingly fun and powerful.
Seem like a lot of work? the next 5cs, like your career, are not so much a detination as a journey.
source: ST/ANN
Just as sailors must sail through the doldrums if they want to realise their ambitions of sailing to far away places,we too must make difficult transitions in our careers.
If we are to move from junior to senior, from ordinary to extraordinary, there are at least four major transformations to navigate:
From:
-Being reactive to being proactive;
-Fulfilling a role to contributing your gifts;
-Serving your work context to your career goals;
-continuous learning to teaching others.
Each transformation requires not that we do different things, or that we do things differently changed, that we be transformed.
But like passing through the doldrums, when we are in the process of transforming, we feel stressed, uncertain and confused.
How then do we navigate through the transitions of our career?
Begin now to cultivate within yourself each of the 5Cs.
This is where you will find the strength and wisdom to navigate the trials of career transition.
Pick a Course
More than anything, to cross the uncertainty of transitions, you must have a destination in mind. That way, when you are becalmed in transition, you will have a course to set your sails by as you work each breeze to inch your way forward.
It does not matter that your greater destination will change as your career proceeds, it only matters that you have a course to set your compass by.
In particular, set goals that define how you will be proactive, decide what gifts you want to contribute through your work, what work context will support your career goals and how you will help others learn.
Build Courage
To be extraordinary, you must practise taking risks - this is how you will build the courage to be extraordinary.
You must practise standing out and being proactive. You must also practice stepping out of your role and your comfort zone and declaring your unique contribution.
You must risk insisting that your work aligns with your gifts. You must risk allowing those you are teaching to make mistakes on your watch so that they can learn.
Does it help knowing there is no way other than by rsking?
Probably not, so you might as well get started.
Build Capacity
Do this every day, in every way. "work only" is never sustainable by itself - you must have the strength of a full and balanced life to sustain you.
Being "extraordinary" means bringing who you really are into play at work, and that is how it feels when you are extraordinary successful - like play!
A life of integrated play and work is your platform for excellence.
Be Deeply Committed
If you are to make your work an expression of gifts, you will have to make difficult choices, big commitments.
This requires you to stand by your choices, at first for yourself, and later asa leader for your colleagues.
You build your capacity for commitment by learning two things:
(1) how to say "no", ironically, and by learning to take responsibility for everything over which you have the slightest choice.
(2) learn how to 'decide', that is, learn how to kill off the alternatives until you are committed from the very core of your being. This unleashes the power to be extraordinary.
Be Compassionate
Compassion is love for yourself and then love for others.
Show me a workplace that works and i will show you a workplace where people care about themselves and one another.
I will show you a workplace where trust is the basis for relationship, not power or fear, and where people are committed to their own and everyone's success.
Call me old-fashioned, but that looks like compassion to me. To build compassion, learn to love yourself first by discovering how to accept who you really are - the good, the bad and the ugly. It s a process that is srprisingly fun and powerful.
Seem like a lot of work? the next 5cs, like your career, are not so much a detination as a journey.
source: ST/ANN
Get a Life
What a day I've full day rest at home.
When I wake up late evening..get bath..n dressup on my own cute casual style which is my favourite short-pant n pinky shirt n the sparkling hair band.
I look myseft in reflection of the mirror.. saw myself.. of coz myself babe!
My mind start to think for the next 3months ... 6months.. 9months.. 12months.. yahh I'm telling myself that I have some plan aheads.
My brother will be working in Putrajaya soon. I start to think n imagine of something...????
I've been asking myself how can I / We earn some extra income for better life.
Few days ago, I visited a friend who's stay in Damansara Perdana.
OMG, I relly fall in love to that area.
While talking to a beautiful friend of mine...
Some idea pop-up to my head! Housing Investment! Property in elite area? HomeLoan..? Yahh that's the ideas. Buy & Rent.
Knowing my brother & I just started a good career prospect here. Maybe we can think about it?
Lets move 1 step for something beneficial.
I look at my smile's reflection... I reminded myself to start plan for having some saving & allocate some amount to payoff whatever costs i've taken.
I'm hoping myself to earn 2k after next 6months. I have another 5months to master all area of jobscope. I may says I dislike the system & status checking tasks, maybe i don't really master the skill n understanding. Time goes & practise will do.. :-* that's what i can says.
Somehow I know that I do enjoy every single moment with my working environment, it's ok I may don't have much time for surfing d'Net during day time, everyday is busy til 7pm. But the the people around me that always boost up my spirit to grow and be smart as they are.
I really hope this time, me, bro, n sis' will start to put on effort to work'itout togather.
More to give & take & sharing is happiness. If we can't get more from our own kampung why not thinking of get as much as we could from here n payoff to family members.
-United We Stand ; Divided We Fall-
I've been thinking..
1-pay off amount i've used
2-my future saving
3-mom n dad
4-my little twin will need some attention too..
+-x/ = ????? I must be patient of all obstacles... There's a way... be willing to plan, think & take necessary action.
cayoo..cayooo.. pls boost up ur spirit babe!
fello blogger.. any good advise for me?
Important link: http://www.iproperty.com.my/property/rental.asp
When I wake up late evening..get bath..n dressup on my own cute casual style which is my favourite short-pant n pinky shirt n the sparkling hair band.
I look myseft in reflection of the mirror.. saw myself.. of coz myself babe!
My mind start to think for the next 3months ... 6months.. 9months.. 12months.. yahh I'm telling myself that I have some plan aheads.
My brother will be working in Putrajaya soon. I start to think n imagine of something...????
I've been asking myself how can I / We earn some extra income for better life.
Few days ago, I visited a friend who's stay in Damansara Perdana.
OMG, I relly fall in love to that area.
While talking to a beautiful friend of mine...
Some idea pop-up to my head! Housing Investment! Property in elite area? HomeLoan..? Yahh that's the ideas. Buy & Rent.
Knowing my brother & I just started a good career prospect here. Maybe we can think about it?
Lets move 1 step for something beneficial.
I look at my smile's reflection... I reminded myself to start plan for having some saving & allocate some amount to payoff whatever costs i've taken.
I'm hoping myself to earn 2k after next 6months. I have another 5months to master all area of jobscope. I may says I dislike the system & status checking tasks, maybe i don't really master the skill n understanding. Time goes & practise will do.. :-* that's what i can says.
Somehow I know that I do enjoy every single moment with my working environment, it's ok I may don't have much time for surfing d'Net during day time, everyday is busy til 7pm. But the the people around me that always boost up my spirit to grow and be smart as they are.
I really hope this time, me, bro, n sis' will start to put on effort to work'itout togather.
More to give & take & sharing is happiness. If we can't get more from our own kampung why not thinking of get as much as we could from here n payoff to family members.
-United We Stand ; Divided We Fall-
I've been thinking..
1-pay off amount i've used
2-my future saving
3-mom n dad
4-my little twin will need some attention too..
+-x/ = ????? I must be patient of all obstacles... There's a way... be willing to plan, think & take necessary action.
cayoo..cayooo.. pls boost up ur spirit babe!
fello blogger.. any good advise for me?
Important link: http://www.iproperty.com.my/property/rental.asp
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